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How to Use Sex
Toys
Golden Rules Of Sex Toy Use
In order to help you get the most from your pleasure
toy, here are a few simple guidelines for care which
we recommend you follow:
Before inserting a toy anywhere in your body make
sure that it is absolutely clean. Wash your toy
before and after use with anti-bacterial toy cleaner
or wipes or a damp clean cloth.
- Never use on areas which are swollen, cut or
inflamed.
Never use from anus to vagina or anus to penis - use
a different toy, or cover your toy with a condom.
Never use a toy not designed for the purpose.
Never use any toy that is NOT waterproof in the
shower or bath. Do not allow water into the battery
compartment of ANY toy.
Always make sure your waterproof toy is TIGHTLY
closed before immersing in liquid.
Remove batteries when toy is not in use.
Always use rubber compatible lubricant with your
toy. Oil and Vaseline ARE NOT COMPATIBLE and can
cause damage to latex based materials including
condoms. Water or Silicone based lubes are
recommended for maximum pleasure.
Toys made of Jelly, Cyberskin, and similar materials
require the use of talc to maintain their lifelike
texture. After washing toy, allow it to air dry
completely and coat all surfaces with unscented talc
or corn flour.
Always store toys made from jelly or lifelike
materials separately from each other and from latex
rubber toys, as to remain in contact with them can
cause colors to bleed, and deterioration of the
material.
Enjoy your toy, and remember, If you have any
queries please feel free to email your questions to
cs@erotic-toyz.com for discreet and personal advice.
Vibrators
For the ladies: Primarily, vibrators are
designed to produce orgasm or climax by stimulating
the clitoris but can be used anywhere on the body.
If you are new to the use of a vibrator you can
begin by running it over your face, neck, arms,
shoulders, breasts, nipples, tummy, thighs and feet.
Progress then to the inner and outer lips of the
vagina, the area around the vagina and finally the
clitoris. If you find that the clitoris is too
sensitive, try putting the vibrator on the chord of
the clitoris (just under the skin) right above the
clitoris. The most sensitive part of the vagina is
the entrance up to about 2". Find out which speed
you prefer - whether you want light or heavy
pressure.
If you have never used a vibrator before you will be
surprised at how forceful, intense and long your
orgasms are. Remember your genitals are very
sensitive and you must use plenty of lubricant -
care is needed here if you are using condoms. Make
sure the only oils or lubricants used are water
based - or use it covered with a layer of fine
material. After prolonged use you may feel bit sore
afterwards if you chose the hardest, fastest
settings. So be gentle. Make sure you understand
what your vibrator was designed to do - some are for
outside play only and not for inserting. We will
stress this in our product description. If in doubt,
anything you want to insert must be smooth, and if
it is for anal use, it must have a wide base or
handle to stop it getting "lost".
If you do want to stimulate the anal area remember
to hold on tight to the vibrator as anything pushed
into the anus has a habit of being sucked in. Let's
try to avoid embarrassing moments in the casualty
department!
For the men: these can be rubbed up and down
the shaft of the penis and the glands. The underside
of the penis near the frenulum is especially
sensitive to vibration so check out here. You can
use it gently to tickle the scrotum or you can weave
it around the perineum. Lubrication is advisable for
slicker movement. These areas are sensitive so go
gently to avoid bruising.
Rabbit Vibrators
These are the ultimate for three-way stimulation.
The dildo part of the toy can be inserted into the
vagina and the clitoris can be stimulated at the
same time by the clitoral stimulator. The dildo part
of the toy can be used as a penetration toy and
vibrations of different speeds and intensities are
available by the combination switches on the control
panel. Rotating models can be used to stimulate the
G spot, with beads to add sensation around the
entrance to the vagina, as well as vibrations on the
clitoris. They are very useful if you like a feeling
of penetration as well as clitoral stimulation. The
beads in the shaft of these products provide extra
stimulation.
Non-Vibrating Dongs
These are sometimes penis or wand shaped and are
used for inserting into the vagina (or anus - be
careful to make sure they have a handle or a "T" end
to make sure they do not get lost). They do not
vibrate. You can use them whilst masturbating the
clitoris or lips with a finger or vibrator. Try
using them in and out at different angles and
different speeds to see which is best for you. This
is useful when you want to tell your partner what
you want another time. They are great for G spot
massage of the internal walls of the vagina. Make
sure that you use them with plenty of lubrication.
Eggs & Bullets
These are used in much the same way as vibrators but
they are smaller and more discreet. They are still
just as powerful despite their size, are virtually
noiseless and are capable of many settings. They
must still be used with lubrication and are not
designed to be inserted.
For men: These can be rubbed up and down the
shaft of the penis and the glands. The underside of
the penis near the frenulum is especially sensitive
to vibration so check out here. You can use it
gently to tickle the scrotum or you can weave it
around the perineum. Lubrication is always advisable
to avoid bruising. These areas are sensitive so go
gently.
Anal Beads
These are a sex toy that can be used by both men and
women alone or with a partner. They are smooth round
spheres of silicone or plastic resembling a string
of large beads. The beads are inserted gently with
lubrication one at a time into the anus. At the
moment of orgasm or climax they may be pulled out by
the handle. Beginners should use smaller beads and
graduate slowly to the larger ones. It is all a
matter of personal preference to reflect the desired
levels of arousal and intensity of sensation needed.
There are many nerve endings around the anus and the
movement of these beads can be intensely arousing in
proximity to the male G spot, the prostate gland.
Can the Earth move? You bet!
It is advisable to use a condom when using any
product anally to keep everything clean and minimize
the risk of infection. It is important to note that
the lining of the rectum is extremely delicate so it
is important to relax and use plenty of lubrication.
Do not force anything into the anus. Always select
any anal toy that has a wide base or handle to avoid
it being sucked in by the natural action of the
anus.
Cock Rings
These are bands that can be placed around the penis
to prolong erections and increase sensation by
maintaining the blood flow in the shaft and head of
the penis. Make sure that you can easily remove
them, as it is unwise to leave them on for more than
30 minutes. These are especially useful for men able
to achieve an erection but are unable to maintain it
for whatever reason.
Handy Hint: In order to avoid getting pubic hair
tangled in the ring (ouch!!!), it is advisable to
shave around the area.
Masturbators
These are used to simulate a vagina. Many
masturbators have vibrators fitted to them which can
be turned on or off and the intensity of vibrations
can be varied. Some masturbators have a "stroking"
or up and down movement and can be particularly
useful for men that are disabled. Some have ridges
or "finger-like" projections inside them to give
them a more realistic feel. The most realistic
vaginas envelop the penis put into it and are
probably the most realistic. It is advisable to use
lubrication with them as the friction in use would
bruise the delicate skin of the penis. Also it is
advisable to us a condom with them, as this makes it
more hygienic to use and simplifies cleaning.
It is important to note that when using masturbators
fitted with vibrators, it may be the vibrations that
will bring about the Climax and not the "up and
down" stroking movement. If you can adapt to a
different way of masturbating this will enhance your
sexual experience. The nerve endings on the penis,
the scrotum, perineum and anus are very, very
sensitive to vibration and it is possible, with
practice, for you to enjoy many climaxes without
ejaculating!
Erotic Dusts
Body dusts are the most underrated and overlooked
unguent of all the body play options. Oils, balms
and other liquids can create heated, sensual
encounters; body dusts are a nice change of pace.
They travel better than their oil-based cousins,
reducing the risk of spilling heavily scented oil
through the travel bag. A body dust is a light
powder that you sprinkle on and then rub into your
lover’s skin. Generally, body dusts are infused with
erotic scents like honey, choc and strawberry, and
while they don’t create any slippery friction,
they’ll leave your lover’s body extremely smooth for
a unique feel during lovemaking. Most Body dusts
also come with a feather tickler of some sort to use
when applying the dust to your partners skin. If
your dust doesn’t come with one, recommend one!
Arousal Balms
Arousal balms aren’t meant for full body massage,
they’re intended for concentrated use on sensitive
parts of thee body, such as the nipples, genitals,
inner thighs and other erogenous zones. Most are
flavoured. The arousal balm will tingle when first
applied, then often acts as a warming oil/agent as
it is stimulated, changing from a tingling sensation
to a warming sensation, though some people
experience tingling for a little longer.
Recommend starting slowly with a small amount of
whatever gel You’re using, until you figure out
exactly how powerful the effect on your partner is!
Some people are more sensitive than others, and a
small amount can send them reeling with sensation!
Body Paints
When painting your lover’s body make sure you use
long strokes. While the dots of a happy face may
look cute, it’s more arousing for your lover to feel
a paintbrush or your finger running the length of
his or her body.
They don’t call them erogenous zones for nothing… if
you want to have fun, paint your lovers upper arms,
inner thighs, stomach or other hot spots. Don’t
limit yourself to just body paints! Try using
chocolate, sundae toppings and whatever else you can
get your hands on!
Please direct any questions to cs@erotic-toyz.com
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